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 السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه,

The very last weekend before my so called big day's coming. takdela big day sangat pun. But for first timer in my family, quite big juga la since I'm the eldest. Boyfriend minta teman beli baju. As usual la, semua kwn dia ikut. Jaranglah kami keluar berdua. Kadang- kadang klau kawan dia tak ikut rasa lain pulak.

Decide going to Midvalley coz ingat nak tukar cincin sekali since mak dia cakap xelok cincin ada batu. Ntahlah.. Mak ayah dia ada pemikiran sendiri kut. So haritu prgi Midvalley beli kt sn.. nk kne pg mid blik lah. Tapi sangat rugi la nak trade in.. tolak dlm rm500+ kut.. And kalu amk cincin baru,tak cantik and value berganda lg murah dr cincin merisik. pikir punya pikir.. xjadi tolak..sebab tak rugi apa2x pon sbnrnya. Dengan restu dr mak ayah dia, x jd trade in..

At last jumpa baju kemeja kat levi's. Cantik. Beli dua pulak.. Takpelah.. Janji dia suka.. Settle dua kerja. Tinggal lagi nak balik kemas rumah pulak. InsyaAllah sok nak buat pelamin pulak. Semua DIY. Hopefully semuanya selamat. Doakan saya yer! :)

Ibu saya, baik sangat!

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه,

Its only a week left. Dugaan betul. To be honest, semakin dekat event, semakin banyak dugaan sebenarnya. Tapi kan, my mum.. die mcm tau2x je bila saya tengah down.. Bila saya depressed.. seriously. Without saying a word. Kadang-kadang bila baru je lepas nangis, tiba-tiba dapat call from ibu..

Mungkin benar kata orang, naluri seorang ibu tu kuat. Banyak menda yang mendownkan saya lately.. Penerimaan yang dingin oleh keluarga sebelah abah, stress yang tak habes2x dari aunts and uncles. Pressure dari boyfriend sendiri.. Sometimes I just can't handle it. Seriously. Tapi bila everyweek balik rumah, mesti ibu tunjuk progress majlis tunang saya. Dari segi hantaran.. gubahan ibu gubah sendiri and done already. Ibu beli itu, beli ini. Siapkan juga rumah baru eventhough it's quite impossible to make it done before dateline.

Ibu inspires me in many ways. Even dia ada masalah, tak nampak pon macam ada masalah. and I know her very well. Ntah la, kadang-kadang I just thought that, I want to make her happy. Masa time dia dulu tak dapat nak merasa bertunang dengan arwah abah, kawin pun buat as simple as possible tak macam orang lain, tukar baju 5-6 pasang. And I can say that maybe, my turn, she treats it as her day too. Too excited for this upcoming event.

Thank you bu for giving me full support, lend me your hands, be with me whenever I feel down and depressed, be my ears and eyes, and thank you so much for the effort that you're putting in. I really2x appreciate the effort. Not just appreciate it, I felt touched. Really I am. You make me stronger day by day. Eventhough I know that she wont read this, I just wanna tell every single one of you that Allah gives me the best mom in my entire life. Alhamdulillah..

Progress rumah baru

Progress rumah baru.

There are lots of thing to do. Ibu cakap nak buat majlis di rumah baru. Sempat siap atau tak, taktau lah. Semoga semuanya berjalan dengan lancar seperti yang dirancang. Amin

E-Day Checklist

Salam,

It's about 2 weeks more.
Lets check my checklist for E-Day
(btw kan, saya siap ada 1 buku untuk E-day checklist and budget belanjawan saya bulan2x. hehe)

Hantaran:

Almost half ibu handle.. InsyaAllah saya akan bagi 7 dulang which will be..

• Sirih Junjung (Person in charge: Ibu)
• Kek Buah (Person in charge: Ibu) - semangat since dia kata dia nak buat sendiri
• Buah- Buahan (Person in charge: Ibu. She's volunteered actually.)
• Sepasang Kain Baju Melayu (Person in charge: Me)
• Jam (Person in charge: Me)
• Chocolate (Person in charge: Me) - Planning to buy 1 day before event
• Macarons (Person in charge: Me !) - Already booked

Make-Up

• Booked with depo. Alhamdulillah. (Person in charge: Me)

Canopy

• Booked. Scallop with pink/white theme. (Person in charge: Me)

Pelamin

• DIY. Bantal ibu jahit sendiri. Dah siap. Kinda sweet kan? what makes me even happier when ibu called me and told me that 2 of her friends eager to help us making our "mini pelamin". What a relief. (Person in charge: Whole family)

Catering

• Ibu belanja. Plus mak sedara saya volunteer nak masak jugak. Alhamdulillah (Person in charge: Ibu)

Photographer

• Booked (Person in charge: Me) - Emma's bf 

Door gift

• Maklong cakap better tambah doorgift. Already booked. Mane blh bgtau ape. lalalala. =D  (Person in charge: Me)

Baju untuk my family

• This is actually Ibu's plan. She wants my whole family to wear white attire. Iqa, Eg, Hazieq and Hariez are done. Ibu je sorg lg takde. Dia cakap nak cari sendiri. Baru ingat nak gi beli untuk dia. (Person in charge: Me)

Baju saya

Lets just make it transparent lah. Saya buat macam ni. But I choose soft pink as a theme. Will pick it up this friday. Hopefully.. (Person in charge: Me)

Hopefully everything will turns out the way I've planned. Semoga Dia permudahkan segalanya.
Quite relief and I started to stay on track when my sister told me that their friends really looking into my event and want to come. Kawan ibu dari terengganu.. Kawan saya dari terengganu take an earlier leave for me. Kawan saya dari Johor. Kawan saya dri KL.Thanks to these lovely people. Thank you so much for cheering me up!

Syuhhh.. "Saya dah book awak"

Salam!

Lama tak update blog. Sangat banyak benda yang happened last few days. Last weekend, parents wan turun KL. Katanya nak beli barang untuk hantaran. Sekali ibu kata nak jumpa, kenal-kenal family. So saya dengan wan pun merancang la pertemuan antara 2 keluarga. Actually ibu and keluarga ibu tak kisah pun merisik n bertunang sekali. Tapi sebab nak jaga hati semua orang, so kami ikutkan je la since ibu ade terima call from someone 2,3 days before requested them to know wan's family. Kami temukan kedua-dua keluarga.

Yang syoknye, diorang nak datang hari sabtu. Saya and Iqa baru smpai from KL hari jumaat. Planning to kemas rumah skit biar cun ape semua. Makcik amik tender nak masak untuk tetamu. Alih-alih dalam kul 9pm last friday, ade orang ketuk pintu rumah kami. Terkejut bila tengok masing-masing bwk mop, bwk penyapu nak sm2 kemas. Katanya ade orang penting nak datang esok. Terharunyaaaa... Aunts and anak-anak die sebelah ibu turun ramai-ramai termasuk nenek, tolong kami. Ya Allah, tak tahu macam mana nak gambarkan perasaan terharu. They were all really supportive.. Lepas dah abes kemas, kami lepak borak-borak smpai lewat malam.

and saya message diorg " makcik, mak usu, thanks sgt-sgt tolong ya, nnti ya belanja yer. nak ya belanja apa"

and they replied "takpe, ni turn kakak. Nanti anak makcik kenduri, kakak tolong makcik pulak"

and pagi sabtu masing-masing sibuk masak. Keluarga wan datang a bit late. Janji lepas asar. tp around 6.30pm baru tiba. Jem truk kat PLUS highway due to an accident both sides dekat Pedas Linggi. Perbincangan family antara family bermula. Alhamdulillah, semua berjalan lancar. Nampak gaya mereka "ngam". Alhamdulillah. Termerisik pulak hari tu. Budget nak buat sekali harung. Takpelah.

Beberapa gambar untuk dishare.

Hopefully semuanya berjalan seperti yang dirancang. Amin.

To do list

Havent got any chances to write any updates regarding the E-day event. Have a lot in mind. tonnes to think, a bundle of works need to be done. Enough said, I'm overwhelmed. Please, help me.

Baru saya rasa macam mana rasanya gelabah. Makin banyak plan.. makin rasa banyak menda yang tak settle. Macam mana lah kawan-kawan saya lalui sebelum ni? Regarding the date.. hmm.. lets keep it as secret dulu la kan. :). But InsyaAllah will be held around this year.

To do list:

1. Baju + Accesories for hijab
2. Hantaran
• Dulang
• Misc.
3. Photographer
4. Makeup
5. Catering
6. Mini dais

tu je kut to do list. More details will come after this :)