Fact about pregnancy

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه,

I would love to share you some facts that

" Your Mother carried you inside of her womb for nine whole months, she felt sick for months with nausea, then she watched her feet swell and her skin stretch and tear. She struggled to climb stairs, she got breathless quickly and even a simple task like putting her shoes on was a huge struggle for her. She suffered many sleepless nights while you kicked and squirmed inside of her and while you demanded that she scoffed junk at 3am, she then went through EXCRUCIATING PAIN to bring you into this world. She became your nurse, your chef, your maid, your chauffeur, your biggest fan, your teacher, your agony aunt and your best friend. She's struggled for you, cried over you, fought for you, put herself second for you, hoped the best for you and has driven herself insane with worry for you but never has she asked for anything in return because she loves you and did it all on love alone! Most of us take our Mums for granted but there are people who have lost or have never even seen theirs. If you have a loving Mother who did all of this for you, you are very lucky, never devalue her worth because one day, you'll wish you hadn't! "

Menangis saya baca artikel ni. Yes. That is so true. EVERY WOMEN WILL FACE THE SAME THING. Including our mom. Bila dah nak jadi ibu ni (inshaAllah), baru tau bukan senang sebenarnya. Dari awal kewujudan kantung sehinggalah terjadinya fetus, macam2x perempuan alami. Which lelaki sendiri tak dapat nak rasa. Kadang-kadang saya tahu, seorang suami mesti penat bila isteri asyik mengadu pening kepala la, sakit perut la, cramp la, rasa nak demam la. But that's the fact that guy doesn't know how it feels. Lelaki cuma tahu buat anak, nak anak, sayang anak. Tapi isteri? Dialah yang menanggung semua. Kadang-kadang sedih juga bila layan cerita dekat TV pasal lelaki tak appreciate isteri tengah pregnant ape semua. Okay. Saya pula emo. Tapi betul. Allah gives privilege to women because of many reasons that people especially guys doesn't know.

she got breathless quickly - Even saya sendiri dapat rasakan jalan jauh sikit dah semput. Dah rasa penat. Tak macam dulu, berjalan satu hari pun tak pe. Suami saya sendiri perasan and he sometimes asked me why I breath like that and he assume that its because of the pregnancy symptoms.

 She struggled to climb stairs - Struggle to climb stairs. It happens to me also. Bila nak naik tangga di awal pregnancy dulu pn rasa takut. Takut bila harsh sangat may effect baby. Bila dah besar sikit nak naik tangga pun rasa semput. I guess bila dah 7 months and above lagi la struggling to climb stairs. Semua sebab fikirkan pasal baby. Every single effort has been put in order to make sure that you are in a good health.

 sleepless nights -  Having sleepless night for mom to be when it comes to cramp dekat perut. Rasa tidak selesa. Kebiasaanya happen to mommy la sebab nak jaga baby mesti having problem in term of sleep. Betapa besar sungguh pahala seorang ibu.

She became your nurse, your chef, your maid, your chauffeur, your biggest fan, your teacher, your agony aunt and your best friend. She's struggled for you, cried over you, fought for you, put herself second for you, hoped the best for you and has driven herself insane with worry for you but never has she asked for anything in return because she loves you and did it all on love alone! - This is best describe my mom. I am very sure that every mom will be the same as this fact. 

Bila tahu bukan senang nak jadi ibu, nak lahirkan anak, nak jaga anak, nak besarkan anak, nak mendidik anak2x menjadi anak yang berguna, nak memberikan pelajaran agama yang terbaik untuk anak-anak, nak beri makan, nak tunaikan permintaan anak2x, bukan lah perkara mudah. Naluri seorang ibu dah terpahat dalam hati dan sekarang saya sangat-sangat menghargai ibu saya. But that feeling never come across when I am not in the midst of pregnancy period. 

Sekarang rasa sayang sangat dekat ibu. Everytime balik kampung mesti ibu akan cium. Maybe she knows that her daughter will become mother to soon. She went to Umrah yesterday and I miss her every single time. May Allah protect her, give the best for her. I love my mom. I hope that one day my children will love their mom, dad too very much. Amin.